A minimalist wooden console with a small potted plant and candle against a cream colored wall beside the words, "On knowing when to let go." Clean lines, warm wood tones, and open space create a calm, contemplative scene that evokes simplicity, acceptance, and quiet release.

On knowing when to let go

R asked me to come into his piano lesson, then forgot to ask his teacher. Again. I told myself it meant he didn’t need me there. But he’s seven. Maybe he does want me there and just doesn’t know how to ask. Maybe the forgetting isn’t an answer – it’s its own kind of asking. I don’t know when to let go. I’m not sure anyone does.